Expectation – Change – Frustration

I wanted to write on this from very long time. As the subject is describing, I wish to discuss or rather tell you my point of view on various stages of life which directly touch your emotions. Yes, I am using word emotions b’coz these three words badly effect on your Emotions. Lets me describe these words one by one and try to relate with each other and will find why I am saying it’s badly effect on your personal emotions. With my personal experience, here I go:

First what is Expectation: Expectation is something which, you think, will or should happen in future. As coin’s faces, expectation also has two faces, bad and good. However its generally lean to bad face. How??? Say, If a person expecting something from other person and its fulfilled… then, I am sure he start thinking - oohh, that was expected and he or she genarally give less value to that, what happen. But unfortunatly if its doesn’t happened as you have expected you feel dissatisfy. You are not agree to take this things as it is come to you. So my point of view is - a less advantageous result of expectation gives rise to the emotion of disappointment. Now question is with whome you expect? ofcourse I keep my expectation only with my very near and dear one. Acatually I always start expecting with each of my close one but after sometime his or her behavior or performance let me think on my action. I tell you buddy its take lots of time for everyone to react positively on such “Unexpected” behavior. Its hurt you emotions.. isn’t it? I am not saying you should not expect anything with anyone. Sometime expectation gives joy in your life. I have expreianced those joyful moments.

Change: Change denotes the transition that occurs between one state to another. There is a saying –“The only constant is change.” It’s true. The only thing here is not true is, ppl like me genarally takes changes very easly in their life. We have to admit, it’s a "continious" thing in life. Changes always makes u sucessful or unsecessful, joyful or unjoyful, strong or weak.. The choice is yours – and it is a choice. How can you make them work for you?

Frustration: An another stage of emotions. In this stage things are not working out as planned, the end result may take longer than expected. People begin to see that their initial expectations for the things those are not going to happen. Resistance to the changes is occurring, although the resistance is usually not obvious. This is the place where energy starts to be lost; people start to bail out; mind can’t think good; everything looks unrealistic – this is the danger stage. Frustration replaces optimism. Questions about the value of the change, the need for it and the “how did I get here?” question sare heard.... Its your time to react on these questions.

My Conclusion: So if you see closely, except Frustration everything is okay.. but frustration is the result of Expecation. The results always got change due to some changes. You are so determine with you expectation that, if something goes wrong or some changes happen, which drag ur expectation somewhere else, where u don’t want to stand yourselves, you got frustrated. So the bottom line is – change is inevitable in life. Don’t get frustrated with changes and never expect a lot from ppl. Enjoy the moment with them share the love but don’t expect. Expectations lead you to a bad shape of life….

What do you think about my point of view. Please let me know too..

Pepole & Others

In this entry you will find various pictures. Some of these are taken in Chiemsee and some are from Salzburg-Austria. Comments are welcome as always.

Miss Photogenic. taken in front of Fama fountain.

Musician @ Salzburg in front of church.

We met with this couple on the way to Royal palace @ steamer. This guy is from Argentina and lady called herself as 'True Bavarian' (German). They allow me to think Love don't see any boundaries, cast or religion. Love ALWAYS and ONLY wants love.

10 years old girl was taking photo with her DSLR camera. When I saw her, I thought these ppl are well forward by WE Indians.

We were waiting for train @ Chiemsee for Salzburg. I saw one book shop @ station and I went inside with my camera and result is next picture.

This is the steamer which took us from Chiemsee to an Island where Palace is situated.

Starting point for Island. See the white cloud over the mountains.

German Beer. The best beer in whole world.

I have never seen so big horse in my life.

Duck @ Fama fountain @ palace garden.

Picture 2 @ book shop. The main reason to take this pic b'cos this book saying some thing about Kerla.

Sculpture and flowers

Few days back on 11th of Aug. we visited to a place called Chiemsee. It is on way of Salzburg-Austria. It was raining all day and didn't allow me to take out my camera every where. So I have very few pictures of this beautiful place. Also the cloudy weather is not very good for photography.
Chiemsee, one hour from Munich by train, famous for Royal Palace of King Ludwig II. Now this palace id turned as museum. Cameras are not allowed inside of Palace/Museum. The palace is situated in a small island. We went there by a steamer. (Its remind me Kolkata's launch ghat.. he he he). Here I am trying to give some brief about this palace. If you find boring then you may ignore... :)

Since it was opened on 1st Aug. 1886 this unfinished royal palace of has attracted and delighted countless visitors from all over the world.

Still today this majestic palace building wit its sumptuous apartments and halls and the palace park with its famous water feature are the main attractions on the island. There were two fountains are placed in the palace garden named as 'Fama' (north one) and 'Fortura' fountain (south one)

King Ludwig II of Bavaria was build 3 palace in his life and this is the 3rd one. This unfinished palace is the last and most costly palace out of his all 3 palace.

When I saw inside decorum, I felt it is same as Maysor Palace :). Inside the palace there was one curtain which is hand made and took 1 year to make that for 65 womans. AMAZING..

The Garden is also remain unfinished. The guide told me that, between 1868-1873 the arcgitect drew uo thirteen different plans for this building and garden. The Garden's sculptures are made by bronze and **** mettle. I don't remember whats **** means :)

The King wanted a main facade with 25 window axes and side facade with 18 window axes each, plus side wings. When the King died only a skeleton frame had been erected for some part of these wings, while work on other part had only just got under way. In 1907 these half-build structure were removed.

I found some beautiful flower in the garden and wish to share with you. Hope u'll like it... :)

Please don't asked me about flower name. I am very bad in gardening. I still remember once I said to my best friend -- I am very good in gardening and I used to do gardening long back. and after that she make so much of fun of me and my gardening skills, now I'll never say again that I know bit of gardening. he he he :)

Some flowers again.

flowers :)

Sorry same flower different angle.

Happy B'day Piyush

Let me wish me Happy birthday to myself. Few hours back, first time in my life I was feeling myself out of friend. B’coz I always wished by lots of friend @ 12 o’clock night on my b’day. Then, suddenly I got GTalk message from Ashmita, (my sister cam friend) She pinged me right @ 12 o’clock night and wished me. I felt so happy I can’t express here. Thanks Rui, thanks a lot. After your msg/wish, I am not at all feeling alone and lonely…I take out my wine and wished myself. Then I called to my home, thy were sleeping. I woke them up and asked them to wish me. They started laughing and wished me my b’day in their own way. He he he… I got my first b’day call from Vini. She was late to wish me coz she was on train. I am happy that she called me. :-)
Today I suppose to take out to my German Friend on lunch @ McD. I used to take out my friends for lunch on my b’day. I still trying to maintain my habit.. :-)
Some time I feel why we celebrate our b’day? What is the big deal about this day? Why my friend called this is my special day. What makes change from this day? Why we go out with friend and try to enjoy the day.
Are we just celebrating b’coz we successfully finished one more year and added in our life? We should celebrate if we think there are some difference between last year and this year in our life.. As last year, I still feel to have fun, pull lags of other, go out have fun with friend, be with my family, still missing Mom made kheer, cracks jokes, works a lot, achieve a better position in professional life, eat good food, ride my bike and everything which I used to do last year. I can’t say there is no changes happened in last one year into my life. There are few but good reason to celebrate my b’day.
First - I brought an Apartment in JSR… That was my dream.
Second - I got a very good friend, Vini. We do have spent very good time together. God bless u each n' every way of ur life.
Third – I got my very first time onsite opportunity.
Lots of things cmg in my mind right now and yes, I am missing those moments. Moments with Yeswi, I still remember how we had celebrated my b’day few years back. Despite of knowing you are not able to cook anything, you tried to make Cake.. and that was not a bad try. Hay I am smiling... wow…. (very few ppl in my life make my mood change anytime.. they can make me laugh anytime) I am missing u… wish u call me sumtime today, just like u had called me last year n' wished me :-)… I know, u won’t able to call me, but it’s a wish… A B’day WISH….

Friends Forever

First of all let me wish all of u a very Happy Friendship Day. On this day, I wish to share some of my best friends' photo. I must say, I have been always blessed with lots of lovely friends. I can't able to mention each and every one here since I don't have their photo in computer. Friends like Yeshwi, Susanta, Dhrubo, Ajita, Bablu, Koel, Chintu, Mili, Preeti, Vashant, Krunal, sharad, Magesha, Swati v, Sundri, Shanti, haresh parul and many more. Yes, few of them were in my life for sumtime, but they left my life with wonderful memory, memory with I never feel alone. I never forget the joy I shared with my all of my friends. Right now I am not in touch with lots with them. Allmost everybody is busy with their personal and professional life. But I've always tried to make contact with them, thanks to Orkut, Gtalk, Yahoo, and Indian telecom service :). Sorry I am uploading this picture without ur permission. Thanks everyone to be a good friend of mine.. Yes for me, Friends are forever.
And you know... I think... Sometimes in life,you find a special friend; Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh, until you can't stop; Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is Forever Friendship. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete, because you need not worry. You have a forever friend for life, and forever has no end.